Cory Manier On the "playing cop" comment... you couldn't be further from the truth. If I saw somebody drowning and tried to help them, It's not because I want to "play lifeguard". If I witnessed a car accident and stopped to help it's not because I want to "play EMT". If somebody is stuck in the ditch and I help them get out it's not because I want to "play tow-truck driver". If I shovel my elderly neighbor's driveway it's not because I want to "play landscaper". If I help a kid cross the street it's not because I want to "play crossing guard". This will be hard for you to understand, but some people are what we call, "Good Samaritans" and when they see people in need of assistance, help or protection, they stand up and take action themselves and they're prepared to do so. Not because they want to "play hero", not because they're "pretending" to be something they're not... but because they have principles, morals, courage and empathy. Police, Fire and EMT can't always arrive on-time to prevent things from happening, so you can't solely rely on them 100% for immediate assistance at every moment. They don't prevent most things, they deal with the aftermath. I wear a seatbelt and ask passengers to do the same to prevent injury from a car-crash because there aren't EMT's in my car, I wear a life-jacket and make others in my boat do the same to prevent drowning because I don't have lifeguards in my boat, I wear a gun under my shirt to prevent criminals from doing harm to myself or the people around me because I don't have a cop in my pocket. I'm not "playing" and I'm not paranoid, I'm taking responsibility for the safety and well-being of the people I care about. It's a big responsibility and I'm not surprised you avoid taking it