amlevin
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The only one responsible for suicide is the person that performs the act - nobody else.
True. But if you're an Anti-Gun Liberal with an atrophied brain, "It's the gun's fault".
The only one responsible for suicide is the person that performs the act - nobody else.
True. But if you're an Anti-Gun Liberal with an atrophied brain, "It's the gun's fault".
We do a 2nd Sunday of the month coffee in Bothel also. You guys are welcome to that one too.
Whole thread would have been avoided if West Coast Armory had issued a statement instead of denials.
The name I just stole from elsewhere on the web.
Thanks for the kind words. It's like the lottery you never want to win. You get a mild case of PTSD, and run the incident over in your head. You get angry at the person for including you in their desperate act. You're thankfull they didn't do anything more desperate, like shoot at you. You try and remember snippets of the person, and wonder why you couldn't pick up on their peril. You wonder if a kind word or reaching out could have helped. Then, you go home, hug your kids and go on with your life, with a greater reverence for life in general.
Take care of your children. It should get better with time.
I like the turn this thread has taken. The questions have been answered and the hand of understanding and brotherhood has been extended. It is good to meet face to face - bonds are created and understanding grows in a way that it cannot otherwise. Have found that there are more similarities in people of our cloth that differences.
Adversity IMO teaches adaptability, resilience. Never to old to learn and benefit from the perspective of others.
Not lecturing, just musing. Wish I had the wherewithal to travel more and meet some of you first hand. You don't always have to wear another's moccasins, it can be enough to stand beside them.
Salute.
Where do you guys meet in Bothell? That one is super close to me.
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Although my replies may have been, and probably were, abrasive, I think the OP's were here for more than informing a forum about am tragic event. I think they were looking for some type of support group.
A public forum is not for getting sympathy. That is why there are support groups.
Well SVG, I guess that is why we have the ability to think what ever we want and not be mandated to agree with you.
Absolutely, and that works vice versa.
Some of us would rather have compassion and not be so abrasive, especially when someone just went through a tragic event.....
Well SVG, I guess that is why we have the ability to think what ever we want and not be mandated to agree with you.
I refuse to be the part of the world that choses to treat people with no heart. I am an NRA member and 2nd Amendment supporter, but I am also a Christian. I will NEVER step all over someones feelings on this site because they try to express something they are going through. This SHOULD be a support group site as well as a forum to discuss gun issues. Why can't it be both?
I refuse to be the part of the world that choses to treat people with no heart. I am an NRA member and 2nd Amendment supporter, but I am also a Christian. I will NEVER step all over someones feelings on this site because they try to express something they are going through. This SHOULD be a support group site as well as a forum to discuss gun issues. Why can't it be both?
I refuse to be the part of the world that choses to treat people with no heart. I am an NRA member and 2nd Amendment supporter, but I am also a Christian. I will NEVER step all over someones feelings on this site because they try to express something they are going through. This SHOULD be a support group site as well as a forum to discuss gun issues. Why can't it be both?
Good Lord. Moving to WA this summer, but hadn't read this sub-forum in a while. Saw this thread at 12 pages, just a little while ago, and as I started reading through, I had to force myself not to skip to the end. What a ride! We don't having anything remotely interesting in the TX sub-forum, let alone the TV melodrama that unfolded here. It's like an episode of "Castle"...
Good Lord. Moving to WA this summer, but hadn't read this sub-forum in a while. Saw this thread at 12 pages, just a little while ago, and as I started reading through, I had to force myself not to skip to the end. What a ride! We don't having anything remotely interesting in the TX sub-forum, let alone the TV melodrama that unfolded here. It's like an episode of "Castle"...
...wonder if that tinted the cases a bit in favor of ......
OK, here is what has given the tint.
After 2 tours in Viet Nam as a corpsman with the USMC, I had many close friends that I watched die, some of them as I was trying to save their life.
In civilian life as a leo, I responded to numerous fatal accidents and a few suicides. In the last 2 years I have lost both parents, two sisters, my father in law,and now my wife's brother is on the edge with liver cancer.
Do I care about these tragedies? yes I do care. But I, do not verbalize the sorrow. I am very jaded toward sympathizing. If you want sympathy, I am not the one to come to. If you are looking for empathy, I will sometimes provide that but only with family and very close friends. This is my avenue of avoidance.
I speak my mind and if you do not like it, tough twinkies.