protector84
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Again, I certainly don't want to shoot someone if I can help it. I also don't like confrontations with people because you never know who you are dealing with. Additionally, the fact that I even need to confront someone in the first place tells me that such person already has poor mental health or he wouldn't be acting out of line to begin with. I am a generally polite person and it is a shame that so many people aren't that way. The problem is that you often have to confront these people. Arizona is a "stuck on stupid" culture in many ways. Every single day, there is someone just sitting at a stop sign or green light and not moving. I am not in a hurry but I don't have all day either. I have no problem honking at the person to get moving. That doesn't mean I'm going to ride up beside them later and look at them in a threatening manner or give them the finger. I don't believe in unnecessary confrontations. Likewise, daily in line at a store you have someone standing ten feet back from the counter not paying attention or some fat person is blocking the isle and not even in line. I have plenty of patience but it doesn't mean wastingmy whole day. I don't have a problem politely asking the person "Are you in line?...Can you please move forward?" or in the second case, "Sir, can I please get by?" It is not uncommon in this "stuck on stupid" culture for the person I'm confronting to be so zoned out that I have to say "excuse me" a second, third, and even fourth time and they still cannot hear me. Then you have to physically but carefully push by them and then risk them blowing up at you.
Could you imagine in Manhattan people just sitting and standing around with nothing to do? Or in L.A. for that matter? No need to get side tracked on a cultural comparison. The point is that as much as you try to avoid confrontation the high percentage of idiots out there often requires at least some level of a confrontation and naturally the more confrontations you get in, the chances of a defensive situation occuring also goes up.
It is a catch-22 I have dealt with for a long time. If you are carrying a gun, you need to be polite but at the same time people do occasionally need to be told. You walk a fine line everyday here it seems.
Again, I certainly don't want to shoot someone if I can help it. I also don't like confrontations with people because you never know who you are dealing with. Additionally, the fact that I even need to confront someone in the first place tells me that such person already has poor mental health or he wouldn't be acting out of line to begin with. I am a generally polite person and it is a shame that so many people aren't that way. The problem is that you often have to confront these people. Arizona is a "stuck on stupid" culture in many ways. Every single day, there is someone just sitting at a stop sign or green light and not moving. I am not in a hurry but I don't have all day either. I have no problem honking at the person to get moving. That doesn't mean I'm going to ride up beside them later and look at them in a threatening manner or give them the finger. I don't believe in unnecessary confrontations. Likewise, daily in line at a store you have someone standing ten feet back from the counter not paying attention or some fat person is blocking the isle and not even in line. I have plenty of patience but it doesn't mean wastingmy whole day. I don't have a problem politely asking the person "Are you in line?...Can you please move forward?" or in the second case, "Sir, can I please get by?" It is not uncommon in this "stuck on stupid" culture for the person I'm confronting to be so zoned out that I have to say "excuse me" a second, third, and even fourth time and they still cannot hear me. Then you have to physically but carefully push by them and then risk them blowing up at you.
Could you imagine in Manhattan people just sitting and standing around with nothing to do? Or in L.A. for that matter? No need to get side tracked on a cultural comparison. The point is that as much as you try to avoid confrontation the high percentage of idiots out there often requires at least some level of a confrontation and naturally the more confrontations you get in, the chances of a defensive situation occuring also goes up.
It is a catch-22 I have dealt with for a long time. If you are carrying a gun, you need to be polite but at the same time people do occasionally need to be told. You walk a fine line everyday here it seems.