How about before you look at what kind of gun you want, you have a look at what kind you'll need. These people who are trying to get you to carry a frigging Colt 1911 or it's Taurus equivalent? Yeah, they have no idea what they're talking about. I mean, yeah, good guns all, but I am going to tell you EXACTLY why you need to get some facts that gun freaks don't like to pay attention to and why carrying anything that big is sheer LUNACY. Let's look at some facts:Funny it seems they are not the ones who do not know what they are talking about.
For one, you're going to be carrying this thing for long periods of time, right? Sometimes all day, so you want to go as small and light as possible. Believe me, even a small gun can have a, well "substantial" feel on your hip. I recommend a .38 snub revolver because it'll NEVER jam and it's easy to operate in a panic. Have a look at what Taurus or Charter Arms have to offer in that area, their quality is good and the cost won't break the bank. If you must have a semi-auto, go for a pocket .380 and have a look at the Taurus TCP, Ruger LCP or Bersa Thunder. All good, none of which is going to require you to sell your blood to buy. Now I am going to blow away every argument anyon could possibly have against carrying anything but those two varieties of guns, Here we go!Everybody has a different opinion or feel on the level of comfort, it is more about the holster belt than the size of a gun. Size of a gun that a person chooses is completely on their comfort level, not yours.
FBI statistics show that 95% of gun fights take place at a distance of ten feet or less and are over in two shots. Okay, got that? That means that since you're not law enforcement and you're not a zombie apocalypse battlefield, you have no reason at all to be carrying some massive, high capacity, high powered, nice, shiny,accurate-to-300 feet, $1000 gun. In fact, based on what I just said, you have no need at ALL to carry anything aside from the general style and size of the two types of guns I recommended. None. If you shoot someone, it's going to be close enough o see the whites of their eyes and believe me, five rounds will be MORE than enough unless you freak out and needlessly empty the thing into some slob. Again the choice of the gun is up to the buyer/carrier. Make suggestions but leave your insults of others type of carry to yourself.
And when you carry openly, you are much more likely to be noticed. You're a guy carrying a gun who is going to be surrounded by those who have no idea you don't need to be a cop in your state, nor do you need a license, to carry openly. I've looked people right in the face and told them you can carry a gun openly in NC so long as you know the rules, NO LICENSE OR PERMIT REQUIRED. Their next question is, almost 100% of the time, "You need a permit to do that, right?". It just goes right in one ear and out the other. So you're going to be standing out no matter what kind of gun you carry. At all times when in public, I've found it's better to maintain a humble, low profile and not be noticed any more than you need to whether you're toting or not. A gun on your hip puts you at a disadvantage, so a huge one puts you at an even greater one. When you first open carry, you'll feel as though EVERYONE is looking at you, but after a while you're grow more at ease with it and realize you don't stand out that much. But still, why give anyone a reason to scrutinize you and maybe call the cops with a "I'm at the grocery store and some guy has a gun!" call? This has not been a problem in this state. You are sounding more and more like a hoplophobe. Most OC on this board carry without the fantasy encounters you portray.
Let's also consider just what excuse on EARTH you're going to give to the cops or some jury as to why you shot a guy who was threatening you with a knife or baseball bat at 20 feet away, and with a gun that was three times more powerful than what was necessary. How could that individual possibly have hurt you at that distance? He couldn't, so why did you feel the need to shoot him? You aren't going to need that kind of accuracy, and in fact it's better you DON'T have it, left you pop someone that far away. Go ahead, sit on the stand and make me buy that argument when the guy's family is suing your ass months later when a picture of that shiny, massive, new 1911 or Dirty Harry revolver you were so proud when you left the shop with it is blown up to ten times size, mounted on a board and sitting out in the courtroom for days on end for the jury to gaze at and wonder why you used anything that obnoxious. This isn't about what kind of gun you LIKE, it's about carrying one that fits the purpose and nothing more. And this is the most ignorant of all. When it comes down to a shooting there is only one question, whether that shooting was justified or not. You seem to have a chip on your shoulder with obvious open carry. You seem to want to encourage or tolerate OC and long as it is a mouse gun.
Keep it to a modest .38 or .380, shall we? There is no justification on Earth as to why you need anything more.