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    Women and OC

    Hello everyone. I'm a new member, but have been lurking for quite some time. I appreciate the (usually :lol:) intelligent and thoughtful discussions here. I've CC'd for over 20 years, but never felt comfortable OCing. I never had confidence in my ability to fend off a real attempt to grab my...